R.I.P Veny (1982-2012)

20 September 2012

This is a post delicated specially to our dear friend, Veny.  She was a brave and strong fighter, great mother to Widjaya and Widyana, a great & supporting wife to Sim Cik and is always very approachable to anyone who knows her!  It's with deepest regrets to know that she has left us earlier today in Innsbruck, Austria for a better world.

*Photos taken during National Day celebrations - Our last outings with Veny*

Veny has a condition known as Giant Haemongioma at the liver and was found out only in early August - she has this condition since young and was never diagnose.  We just got to know her health condition on the day we met for NDP celebrations, just days after she was discharged from a 3-day admission in A&E.

So.  They still go ahead for the trip which was since planned in June (specialist doctor in Singapore told them it was safe and no issue on travelling too).  Then.  It was a holiday nightmare in Salzburg.  She was admitted to the hospital in Salzburg after the Haemongioma bleed on 27 August - just 4th day of their travel!  They thought they could return for treatment but last week she has another massive internal bleeding and was transfered to ICU.  She was into coma since Monday...

On the night before, we left a recorded voice messages to encourage her, give support (ah Thiang even reminded her about the expensive brunch we had... and we are waiting for her to come back so that we go brunch again!) and whatsapp-ed to Sim Cik to play to her to keep their vibes up.  We were praying for her everyday for recovery (or stabilization) so that she can repatriate home for treatment but the day never come...

Now all We have are memories,

and your picture in a frame.

 

Your memory is our keepsake,

with which We'll never part.

 

God has you in Heaven,

We have you in our heart.

 

Rest In Peace Veny (1982-2012)

You're still loved, still missed and very dear.

*Photo of us taken exactly a year ago - 24 September 2011 at one of the Bishan CC YEC event.*

Dearest Sim Cik,

 

Our deepest condolences to you and your family.

 

Hold tight to memories for comfort,

lean on your family and friends for strength,

and always remember how much you are cared about.

 

Please take care and continue to stay strong for Widjaya and Widyana!
Veny will protect and watch over you from the above.

 

Love always,

Arthur & Wendy